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No Pension Plan? No Problem!

Sunday, July 31st, 2011

By Sue Ricketts

In the last decade or so more and more people are choosing, or being forced, to become their own boss. This gives freedom and the ability to control our own destiny. This is wonderful and can make our hearts sing.

There is a downside though. In doing so, we give up the golden parachute, the rock solid pension plan and maybe even the “about” retirement income of a Registered Retirement Saving Plan type income in retirement.

Since 2009 there has been a new tool in the tool box which will help us to guarantee what amount of income we will have once we chose to give up our full time employment. The latest thing

is called a Tax Free Savings Account.

This works by allowing you to put money away for a later date. There is no tax break when you put the money in, but there sure is when you take it out. The two problems with RRSPs has always been taxation and inflexibility of when and how much you must take out. With Registered Retirement plans every dollar is taxed and you have no say in when and how much you take out. That means that instead of having one hundred cents of every dollar to spend, you have only seventy-eight cents, sixty-eight cents or even fifty-four cents to spend of every dollar you have saved. In Canada we have a graduated tax system which means that the amount of tax you pay is governed by your total income in any given year. So …. the government has been kind enough to let you help them pay their bills during your retirement too. You will have to take out one-third more than you need to live on each year.

With TFSAs you put away money and whenever you want it, you take it out and spend it. Your contribution dollars will never be taxed and the money which it earns while invested isn’t taxed either. You get to spend one hundred cents of every dollar which you take out of the plan. If there is a down year and your investments tank, you don’t have to take any money out.

There are a few restrictions, of course. You can only put $5,000 per year into TFSAs. You can invest in bank accounts, GICs, mutual funds and segregated funds. But even more important, if you take some of the money out, you don’t lose the contribution room. So if you start a plan with $5,000 in 2011, you are allowed to put in another $10,000 because you had room for 2009 and 2010 which you didn’t use. If you need to repair your roof in 2012 and decide to use $3,000 of TFSA money, you can still carry forward that room and put $8,000 in for 2012.

The one thing which isn’t quite clear yet and I am pursuing is how the growth will affect the future contribution room and whether or not any withdrawal will be considered to be part growth on your investment. Although there will be no tax due on any of it, how does it affect your future contribution room

For those of you thinking about this option, you don’t have to contribute the full amount of $5,000 each year but it wouldn’t hurt to have $25,000 socked away and growing after five years, would it? Any amount is good.

Going back to the financial vehicles you can invest in, one of the better ideas I have heard is the thought of making your own Individual Pension Plan with TFSAs. Today most insurance companies have a 5% minimum bonus growth in their segregated fund plans. Segregated funds are the same as mutual funds but you pay less than one percent more on the MER charges to have an insurance policy attached to them. This insurance guarantees that if you die, your heirs will receive either 75% or 100% of the amount you have contributed (less any withdrawals made by you). There is also a maturity guarantee of 10 or 15 years which means that you can’t have what could happen in the open mutual fund market where you lose a significant portion of your investment. Your funds are protected. The caveat on segregated fund guarantees is that the 5% bonus will not be guaranteed in any year that you make a withdrawal. However, you will get whatever the market earns that year.

So, about that individual pension plan? If you tell me how much of your retirement funds you want to take out of TFSAs in retirement and how many years you have to contribute and let it grow, I can calculate how much you need to put aside each year. Take care of yourself and don’t put that burden on someone else. That’s a great gift and almost as good as leaving a fortune to your children.

Seven deadly money disorders: financial incompatibility

Sunday, July 31st, 2011

Secrets that destroy couples

By Julie Cazzin | From MoneySense Magazine, June 2011

In this fourth installment of our Seven deadly money disders series, Julie Cazzin profiles a couple with serious communication problems when it comes to the family budget.

     At the Nashville clinic for money disorders, Max Deacon, a 42-year-old salesman in the oil and gas industry, told me his marriage with his wife Marie is on the rocks. The problem? Marie is a classic underspender, but in her mind, it’s Max who has the problem.

Marie, a single mom at 18, had always been tight with money, Max told me, but she suddenly became much worse when her daughter Jane, 23, left for Chicago to pursue a singing career. “Then Jane announced she was getting married this year. Marie hasn’t dealt well with the fact that she is leaving us. I think she’s projecting a lot of the issues she has with Jane onto me.”

Because Marie would get upset whenever Max spent money, he began hiding his purchases by mixing them in with business expenses on his credit card. But Max wasn’t prepared for the depth of her anger when she found out. Marie hasn’t spoken to him or been intimate with him since the day she ripped open his credit card statement a year ago and discovered the financial lies. “She told me I wasn’t to be trusted. Then she flung the household budget at me and told me that it was her good budgeting that enabled me to spend money so freely on credit cards. So I’d be in charge of it now.”

Despite their crumbling relationship, Max isn’t ready to give up. “Both Marie and the church minister suggested that I come here for counselling, and I have,” Max told me. “I feel dumb, shamed, tired and angry most of the time — and sometimes I want to run — but I know I just can’t do that. I’m a devout Christian and I take my wedding vows seriously. I’ll always stick by Marie.”

Overcoming financial incompatibility
Financial incompatibility is tough to treat because it isn’t a problem with just one partner or the other — it’s a problem with the relationship. Max alone can’t be “cured” to save the marriage, so Klontz, the psychologist, recommended that he come back with his wife for a future workshop.

If you and your partner don’t see eye to eye about money, there are a few things you can do at home to make things better. Start by communicating and really listening to one another. Set up a weekly meeting to talk about any money and behaviour issues that have arisen over the past seven days. The key is to enter into the meetings agreeing that there will be no laying of blame, and neither partner is completely at fault.

A Stolen Life

Sunday, July 31st, 2011

By Jaycee Dugard

     This is a retelling of 18 years of almost total waste of a life. I say almost, because at the end of it she did have two things to be very proud of – her daughters. Somehow they managed with their mother’s love and care to survive their upbringing.

All through her time of sorrow and deep abiding loneliness Jaycee Dugard held one symbol within her heart which helped her keep herself sane. The last thing she felt and held in her hand when she was snatched and thrown into the back of a car in South Lake Taos, California was a pine cone. The last smell she had of freedom.

That was June 10, 1991 when Jaycee was 11 years old.. Not until 18 years later was she found and released from captivity by her abductor Phillip Garrido and his abetting wife Nancy. This book tells in plain, unvarnished truth what happened and how it felt. The incredible deep loneliness which plagued her and the fears of not remembering her mother’s face. The controlling terror of Garido’s many-days-long drug bouts which she had to endure. Her total dependance on him for food, clothes and for her very life allowed her to find ways to cope and deal with the sexual treatment of a paedophile.

Jaycee does not hide the mental stress which she endured in isolation from everyone and everything which we consider normal. How much harder it became when she had her first child at 14 years of age with no help but her captors. Again, the stress and fear increased when she gave birth to a second daughter at 17 in the same conditions.

This book speaks to the incredible ability and desire of humans to survive no matter what. Part of the book talks about their psychological care and the healing necessary to try to return to a normal state of existence when they were freed at last in 2009. That in itself is an interesting story of equine treatment and how animals can both heal and encourage the human spirit.

After their survival and healing the last thing they had to endure was the trial and their testimony against Phillip and Nancy Garrido in June of 2011. They did so and Phillip was sentenced to 431 years in prison. His wife received 36 years to life for her part. They will never get out to harm anyone else.

How did Jaycee and the girls finally get free? The convicted paedophile took Jaycee’s daughters with him when he visited UC Berkley one day to show people the “box” he had built which allowed anyone to hear the angel voices which directed him. The accompanying girls’, 11 and 14, odd behaviour started an investigation which ended in him bringing his whole “family” to his parole officer. He had been forbidden to be in the company of minors by the courts, yet he claimed to be raising the girls.

Although during the many years of captivity various parole officers visited and inspected his home, no one ever inspected or suspected that there were out buildings in the back of the property in which Jaycee was imprisoned and where she brought up her daughters.

I recommend this book for those who want to understand both the worst and the best of which we are capable.

Seven deadly money disorders: financial enabling

Sunday, July 24th, 2011

A make-believe money world

By Julie Cazzin | From MoneySense Magazine, June 2011 Tags: money disorders

 Financial enabling is short-term help that hurts in the long run. It often involves a parent of substantial means who uses his or her money to try to keep the kids needy and dependent forever. The problem is that when adult children are made dependent on their parents, they can lose their drive to succeed. Even worse, the parents never learn to let go of their controlling, parental role. In the end, it usually harms both parties.

Sam Carson, a 64-year-old counsellor for a drug addiction clinic, has two grown children that he has showered with cash gifts for years. “I was always trying to make their lives easier,” he told us at the Onsite clinic. But now that his kids are married with families of their own, he’s learning that they need to learn to fend for themselves.

Just recently, for instance, Carson’s daughter Maureen wanted to put her five-year-old daughter Molly in an intensive French immersion program, but she couldn’t afford it. “I could have just given her the money for it but I knew I would be creating a false economy for them,” says Carson. “Deep down I know that giving my kids a step up doesn’t always work.”

Financial enablers often grow up in poverty, and promise themselves that they won’t ever let their children go without, as they did. And while it’s true that financial enabling often starts with a sense of genuine care and concern, it can also be driven by guilt over mistakes made in the past. “I’m a divorced dad and I came to realize that the only way to change the enabling relationship I had developed over the years with my kids was to take personal responsibility for changing it,” says Carson. “It was up to me to break the destructive behaviours that I had allowed to flourish. I’m now more likely to leave my daughter alone to solve her own problems with her husband and family. I’m glad to say she’s doing just fine.”

Overcoming financial enabling
Letting go isn’t easy, but if you shelter your kids too much, you could be harming them. Learn to say ‘no’ to requests for money from your grown children. It’s fine to help out in times of great need, but if they have jobs and they keep coming back to you to help pay the bills, you’re helping them to avoid the real problem, not solve it.

Allowing them to experience the consequences of their own decisions helps them learn. It provides incentive to change, and — once they’ve overcome a challenge on their own — helps them to develop confidence.

Mockingjay

Sunday, July 24th, 2011

By Suzanne Collins

What happened?The first two books presented the hero and heroine as determined, plucky, capable and ultimately winners. This book is dark, vengeful, sad and unsettling. But that’s probably a believable ending to this intense saga.

Peeta and Katniss have managed to survive their second hunger games by short-circuiting the arena itself,. They join forces with other participants and try to make their way home to their Districts. They are hurt and angry. The last straw is when District 12 is destroyed along with most of the people they know and love.

They are taken to District 13 which does indeed exist as an underground nation. They live in a world of communal ownership and communal aims to survive. Every person there is a soldier and everything necessary to life, from food to clothing and all else is carefully meted out in equal portions to every citizen. Years of scarcity have honed miserly instincts in them all.

The one aim that the few survivors from the other Districts have in common with the citizens of District 13 is that they will destroy Capitol and everything it stands for.. They are determined that there will never be another Hunger Game – ever! And so begins the war that the games were intended to prevent

This story is fast-paced and keeps you following through to the end even as you recognize that wars are full of injustices and horrors. Friends and lovers are lost to death and treachery and acts of treason. Will the human race survive? And should it when they haven’t really learned to live in calm and reason with one another?

On the whole, though, this series presents a well-written and engrossing tale which should be required reading for those who are interested in politics and societal certainties. This book completes the story and tells us how Katniss and Peeta survive after all their horrible experiences.

The New Seven Wonders

Sunday, July 24th, 2011

By Sue Ricketts

Did you know that they have held a contest and come up with a new list of the seven wonders of the world? Most of us remember back in school being taught about what they were. Forget it, there’s another list. Only one of those old wonders are there. Can you guess which one made it?

Before you read this article, write down the ones you think should be on that list and see how many you get right.

1. Chichen Itza: Travelling south to the Yucatan peninsula in Mexico takes us to a place in the middle of a jungle where we can see the amazing architectural abilities of the Mayan civilization. The city was inhabited from around 600 AD. Sometime around 1,000 AD a Toltec king came here and made it his capital along with his Mayan allies. Less well known than the pyramids are the Jaguar throne and the columns in the Temple of a Thousand Warriors. You can walk through an area of cosmic ball courts and stepped pyramids which were used as calendars to track the seasons and the years. Their calendars went forward to the year 2012 and the month of December. Because they stopped there hundreds of years ago some people are insisting that the world will end on that last day. We’ll see about that when the sun rises in it’s usual spot on January 1, 2013 – or not. This was a major economic centre for centuries before the Europeans arrived.

 

2.   Great Wall: Next, far to the north-east we find the 5,500 mile long wall which the Chinese built to keep everyone out of their territory. The wall was built over a period of 2,000 years and it is said that more than one million people died while building it. The wall has watchtowers at regularly spaced intervals and truely qualifies as a wonder. The picture shows a guard tower in Jinshanling which shows the amazing building skills used to protect the country.

 

 

 

3. Treasury of Petra: In Jordan there is a whole city which has gigantic buildings and astounding architecture. The giant red mountains and vast mausoleums of a departed race have nothing in common with modern civilization . The interesting part is that it was built by a civilization called the Nabataeans over two thousand years ago. Excavations have demonstrated that it was the ability of the Nabataeans to control the water supply that led to the rise of the desert city, creating an artificial oasis. These amazing buildings were carved out of solid rock in the middle of a great arid plain.If this building looks familiar it may be that you saw the Indiana Jones movie which was filmed there.

 

 

 

 

4.  Machu Pichu: In the high mountains of Peru, after walking for four days along the Inca Trail through very high altitudes you find the Lost City. Or you could just get on the bus with all the other tourists and drive there. It’s not the same thouh and doesn’t give an appreciation of what a wonder it is to find civilization existed in this out of the way place. The ancient Incan city of Machu Picchu was known to American archaeologists for the first time July 24, 1911. Although the purpose of the settlement is unknown, theories have expounded upon a convent because of all of the female skeletons found on site, a vacation spot for the emperor or a last bastion of Incan power in the mountains. No matter what it was used for, National Geographic states Machu Picchu is a hard place to get to and is a terrific hike and camping trip. And Beautiful too. Most archeologists believe that Machu Picchu was built as an estate for the Inca emperor Pachacuti (1438–1472). Often referred to as the “Lost City of the Incas”, it is perhaps the most familiar icon of the Inca World.

 

5.  Taj Mahal: In Agra India there is a most beautiful and ornate palace which we learn was built for love of a woman by Shah Jahan. The marble dome that surmounts the tomb is the most spectacular feature. Its height of around 35 metres (115 ft) is about the same as the length of the base, and is accentuated as it sits on a cylindrical “drum” which is roughly 7 metres (23 ft) high. Because of its shape, the dome is often called an onion dome or amrud (guava dome). The top is decorated with a lotus design, which also serves to accentuate its height. It has been said that Agra has the most beautiful sunsets in the world. Do you know where the second most beautiful sunsets are? In Saugeen shores alone Lake Huron in Ontario, Canada. If you want to see another similar style of architecture do check out the new Hindu temple which has been erected just off Highway 27 in the northern section of the Greater Toronto Area in Ontario.

6. The Colusseum: In Rome we find a familiar arena which was used for over 500 years. A venue for gladiator battles, circuses and all manner of public spectacles. It was built between 70 and 80 AD making it 2,030 years old. Fifty thousand people could attend the shows which were presented here. In the 21st century it stays partially ruined because of damage caused by devastating earthquakes and stone-robbers.  The Colosseum is an iconic symbol of Imperial Rome and shows some of the outstanding techniques which they used to build their civilization.

 

7.  Christ the Redeemer: High above the city of Rio de Janero is a much more modern wonder. No one is sure why this made the list of world wonders except the Brazilians as it not like all the others an ancient tribute from civilizations long gone. Rio is the second largest city of Brazil and the third largest metropolitan area in South America. The home of many universities and institutes, it is the second largest center of research and development in Brazil. In 1502 when the Portuguese fleet enter Guanabara Bay the site was already inhabited by local natives from four different tribes. It is said that Amerigo Vespucci (the man whom the continent is named after) was the navigator on their voyage to the new world. Over the years Portuguese, French, pirates and buccaneers fought over the sheltered bay. Now the landmark statue stands guard high above the sparkling lights of the city.

Seven Deadly Money Disorders: Hoarding

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

When junk becomes treasure

By Julie Cazzin | From MoneySense Magazine, June 2011

Tags: hoarding, saving

This article was first published in the June 2011 issue of MoneySense.

Steve Levinson, a 49-year-old radio announcer, loves to drive around collecting stuff. “I have every Goodwill in America programmed into my GPS,” he says. Levinson attended the Nashville workshop because his wife gave him an ultimatum — clean out the junk in the barns and basement, or else. “Anywhere I go, I have this uncontrollable urge to stop and buy something at the local Goodwill store,” says Levinson. “I feel at home there and the urge to buy is really powerful.”

At the workshop, Levinson recounted how, as the youngest of four kids in a dysfunctional family, he was sexually abused and neglected as a child. The only fond memories he has of his mother (who was also a hoarder) were trips to the local Goodwill. “I remember my mother taking me there when I was a child, giving me a couple of dollars and feeling like a kid at Disneyland,” Levinson told me. “At home, when I was lonely, I would just go downstairs to the basement and there I’d be surrounded by my friend, clutter. It was the only place I felt safe, loved and accepted.” (We’ve changed the names of Levinson and all other clients of the Nashville clinic mentioned in this story to protect their privacy.)

Hoarding occurs when we stockpile objects or money in order to feel safe and relieve anxiety. It’s an example of an otherwise positive behaviour — saving — taken to the extreme. Some hoard money, while others have a compulsion to hoard objects such as toilet paper, shoes or old tin cans. It’s the accumulation of the stockpile — not the buying or spending — that provides the hoarder with a sense of security. Objects become stand-ins for what’s missing in their lives and these objects develop strong emotional meaning. There may be a genetic component involved, but most hoarders tend to have a history of childhood deprivation, abandonment or betrayal.

Changing hoarding behaviour is surprisingly difficult. Detaching themselves from their possessions can make hoarders feel wasteful, guilty and anxiety-ridden. Levinson sees the objects he hoards as a kind of investment. “My beanie babies, my gum wrappers … they’re like stocks and bonds to me,” he says. But two years ago, while cleaning out his deceased sister’s house full of junk, Levinson had an epiphany. “I realized, ‘Oh God, this is what I’m going to leave my wife and sons with when I die.’ ”

When Levinson finally cleaned out one of his four small barns earlier this year, his wife Lisa wept. Then a couple of months ago, for the first time in 45 years, he went into a Goodwill store for two whole hours and didn’t buy a thing. “I had a friend come in with me and witness the event,” says Levinson. “I wasn’t sure I could do it, but when I did, I felt like I was on the road to recovery.”

Overcoming hoarding
The main treatment for severe hoarding is psychotherapy designed to help the hoarder learn why he hoards. Often a therapist or professional organizer will have to help the hoarder de-clutter his home. The key to long-term success is to have the hoarder play an active role in physically getting rid of his stuff. It’s the only way for long-term changes to occur.

If the hoarding problem is milder, there are some ways to mitigate the behaviour without therapy. One method is to agree to a rule that says if a box with stored possessions hasn’t been opened within a set period of time, it’s simply thrown out — without ever opening it. If you have pack-rat tendencies you may also find it’s easier to give things away to charity instead of tossing them in the trash.

If money is the object being hoarded — either literally, as in stuffed in the mattress, or squirrelled away in bank accounts — the treatment is similar. This type of hoarding also arises from deep insecurity and fear about the future. In these cases, the key is to convince yourself that you have enough, that you are secure. A financial adviser can help by running the numbers and demonstrating that you can meet your short- and long-term financial goals with ease, so it’s okay to enjoy some of your money today.

 

Catching Fire: The Hunger Games #2

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

By Suzanne Collins

Having survived the Hunger Games, both Katniss and Peeta should be able to live their lives in peace and wealth. Right? Not while they have enemies in the Capitol.

As the novel opens, they are living in beautiful houses in the Victor’s section of District 12. Their families are safe and whole, well-fed and have survived. Katniss is able to see and enjoy her little sister Prim and even learns to live peaceably with her Mother. Now she understands the terrible emotional storms set off by her Father’s death. She can even sympathize with the emotional withdrawal and mental paralysis which lasted for four years since she herself has managed to live through the Hunger Games.

Peeta and his family continue to bake for the community and he even takes time to draw pictures which he keeps to himself and won’t show to others. He gardens and listens and watches. They do not follow through on their engagement and wedding as they are both numb and emotionally drained from seeing the deaths of the other 22 participants in their first Hunger Games.

Both are thrilled that they can now provide food and plenty for their own. They must be together in visiting the Districts and continue the charade of their love for each other although both realize that Kat was only pretending and still hasn’t decided whether she wants to be with Peeta or her hunting confidant and friend Gale, or not anyone at all. How could she think of marriage and children of her own when she would live every moment in fear dreading that their names would come up out of the ball on Reaping Day and they would be lost in the battles to the death.

In the midst of this uneasy truce comes a bolt which shatters their world. The Capitol announces that this year is the Quarter Quell, the seventy-fifth Hunger Games and the President pulls the envelope from the box of letters supposedly left by those who instituted the games in the beginning. The whole populace is stunned to learn that surviving champions from previous games will be sent into the arena this year to finally crown a victor of the victors. Who will live through this horrible, nightmarish battle to the finish.?

Both Peeta and Katniss decide that the other must be the one to survive the devastation and somehow live to tell the tale. They enlist the help of their old coach Haymitch to give them the skills which they will need in the arena. They make alliances within the group of entrants who all know one another because of their appearances over the year as Victors. And all around them there are signs that the citizens of the Districts are beginning to rebel and that they have made Katniss and her Girl on Fire with the Mockingjay pin their symbol of a better future where they won’t be starved and penned into districts while forced to labour long and hard for the benefit of the Capitol residents. Katniss particularly receives threats from the President of Panem and when they see an old man shot for the effrontery of singing a song, she vows that she must find a way to avenge this horrible act on the part of the soldiers who do the work of the governors of the land.

This exciting and well written allegory on wars and what lengths people will go to in order not to have the human race become extinct is a finely tuned tale which has disturbing echoes in the behaviour of some governments around the world today and others from the past, most notably the Roman Circuses and the Inca bloodbaths to keep control.

Highly recommended for those who want to understand the psychology of humanity. If this doesn’t scare you about the human race, nothing else will.

Seven Deadly Money Disorders

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

Are your finances going nowhere?

Subconscious money ‘truths’ may be holding you back

By Julie Cazzin | From MoneySense Magazine, June 2011

Ramona Reed is standing on the street corner just outside a local thrift store, waiting to give her money away. She’s watched several people leave the shop with bags full of clothes and trinkets, but she hasn’t yet found what she’s looking for. Then she spots them — a young single mom with three small kids. Reed, a pretty petite blonde with sparkling blue eyes and ruby lips, approaches them and strikes up a conversation. She learns that they live in the poorest part of town and can barely make their mortgage payments. They have no car, no stove, no fridge — they simply can’t afford it.
Reed tells them her story — that she originally came from a poor family with 10 children, but now she’s married to a wealthy man and she wants to help others. She buys them a used car for $2,000 and a fridge and stove for $800 more. She has a lot of money, she tells them, and doesn’t need it all. She wants to help. “Money burns a hole in my pocket and I feel compelled to spend it or give it away to others,” says Reed, 53. “It makes me feel like I’m not a screw-up — I’m good for something after all.”
Ray Harper, Reed’s husband of six years, feels differently. (We’ve changed their names to protect their privacy.) He’s threatening to divorce Reed if she doesn’t change her ways. Harper comes from a wealthy family and is a successful businessman in the tech industry. He gives his wife a $6,000-a-month allowance, intending the money to be spent on entertaining his friends and family, or buying art and decorative pieces for their high-end townhouse. When he found out that Reed was spending the money on perfect strangers, he got angry. He told her he couldn’t live with someone who wasn’t trustworthy. He wrote her a cheque for $50,000, put all her clothes and personal belongings in storage and told her to go away — and stay away — until she’d gotten herself “fixed.” “I’m determined to save my marriage,” says Reed. “I’ll do anything to change my ways so that I can be wise with money.”
Reed is one of several people I met last fall at a workshop for people with severe money disorders in Nashville, Tenn., called Onsite. You can think of it as a kind of money rehab clinic. During five days of group therapy the participants examine a slew of unhealthy, self-destructive behaviours. The workshop was eye-opening. I learned that although full-fledged debilitating money disorders such as hoarding, workaholism and compulsive shopping aren’t the norm (it’s estimated that only 5% of adults have one), such disorders often have their roots in common emotions and thought patterns.
In any of us, destructive unconscious thoughts and feelings can hinder our ability to make sound financial decisions. “The truth is, you’re only as sick as your secrets and people with money disorders keep a lot of secrets,” says Ted Klontz, a psychologist and life coach who, along with his son Brad (also a psychologist), runs the Onsite program. The Klontzs are also the authors of Mind Over Money, and Wired for Wealth, two ground-breaking books in the field of financial psychology. “When people come for help around money, it goes so much deeper than what is in their bank accounts,” says the elder Klontz. “It’s a window into unresolved family histories and generational patterns. It’s often unresolved traumatic childhood events that end up triggering money disorders.”
The Nashville workshop’s aim is to uncover those secrets and reveal how they encourage bad money habits. Such ingrained beliefs, or “money scripts” as the Klontzs call them, are powerful ideas that we form around money — what it is and what it can do for us. Typically, we form these beliefs in childhood and they drive all of our financial behaviours. A money script could be that ‘Money will make things better,’ which is associated with hoarding and workaholism, or ‘There will never be enough money,’ which is associated with underspending and miserliness.
We can show signs of more than one money disorder, in varying degrees, in varying situations, and at varying times in our lives. But the underlying scripts rarely change — at least not without conscious effort and hard work. If you want some insight into what may secretly motivate the ways you handle money, or you think someone you know may have a money disorder, read on for an in-depth look at the seven most common disorders. I’ll show you how to spot them, and just as importantly, what you can do to overcome the hidden disorders that may be holding you back from achieving the financial success you dream of.

The Hunger Games

Sunday, July 10th, 2011

By Suzanne Collins

This is the first of three books in the series which examines war and the things that humans do to one another in the name of “saving the world” and “avoiding war”.

The story begins seventy-four years after a Rebellion took place in North America. The Capitol rules all of the Districts. There are thirteen of them. Each of them specializes in one line of production or another. As a result of the districts losing two very important things happened. First the thirteenth district was bombed because they tried to fight against the Capitol. The thirteenth district’s speciality was as a storage facility and creator of nuclear weapons but it was annihilated and no one has heard anything from the people who once lived there since that time.

The second important thing is the the powers who ruled in those days long ago instigated the Hunger Games. Each year every district must send two representatives, a boy and a girl, to fight to the death in the Hunger Games. Those who survive earn large amounts of money and earn sponsors who will take care of them for the rest of their lives. Every child from the age of twelve to eighteen is entered once into the reaping ball from which the names are drawn. If those children are registered for tesserae, a monthly gift from the district of grain and oil for one person, their names are entered a second time for each tesserae which they receive.

As the story begins we meet Katniss Everdeen a sixteen year old who loves her little sister Prim (Primrose) more than anyone else in the world. She lives in District 12, whose specialty is coal mining. Their father died in a horrific blast underground when she was eleven and her Mother has become despondent and incapable of carrying on. Katniss had learned to sneak outside the perimeter fence to hunt while her father was alive and for the last five years has been supporting the family by bringing home meat from the forest. She sells any extra on the black market in a place called the Hob. What she does is illegal and could bring on a public whipping or even a death sentence but there is no other way to survive here. Their small family is not better or worse off than all the rest of the residents of District 12. They are all starving and barely managing to live in the poorest of the Districts.

When the time for the reaping comes Prim’s name is drawn to enter the arena. Katniss immediately volunteers to take her place and now she will have to fight to stay alive and need every ounce of courage she can find to do so. The boy chosen from the District is the baker’s son Peeta Melark. Peeta and Katniss have not really spoken to each other and are strangers when they are sent off to the games.

The two star-crossed teens must somehow find a way to survive and then to have the strength to kill the other one in order to live themselves. This is a harrowing, terrifying, but all too believable tale which will keep you riveted from beginning to end.